Friday, June 5, 2009

Is DOWRY system is GOOD or BAD ?????

Hi,

According to me its Worst, because why only girls parents has to give why not boys parents also give to girl, do girl parents has not spent enough money on girl study or her culture or her fooding, etc.

Today 1 side we say men and women should be treated equally but on the other side we do such kind of partiality against women, its not correct.

Sorry guys i don't have any personal experience to share, but one thing i wont take anything from my partner parents.


Suggestion are most welcomed.

Thanks
Ashish

15 comments:

  1. Hi,

    Most of the people takes dowry because its a tradition or family pressure but i think when a person is ready for marriage then he's quite intelligent to take his own life decision & if then also person is taking dowry then who's fault is this, family or his ???

    Thanks
    Ashish

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  2. wooowwwwwww really good saying..

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  3. Hi; I think that to take or give dowry it is a sin. In present time the poor girls they will not marrie because they live in penurious families. Thanks

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  4. hi ..
    i think it is evil of society ...this prove how much greedy boys r ??one side we say tht boy and girls hav equal rights other side we only demand mony from girl side...its worth for society..

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    1. This is called intellectual paralysis. What about those girl who think to get married to rich guys rejecting the relationship based on affection or offer of lower middle or middle class guys. You are treating like girls are sacrosanct. Hahahah lol

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  5. It is not a bad system. Taking and giving their right as if choosing and rejecting. Dowry system will fade if women and their parents are ready to choose men based on their gender but not on their wealth, salary or earning potential. Any transaction has two parties. To kill the transaction at least one party should reject it. Women side have this choice. Why are they not using it?

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  6. according to me taking dowry is bad because, the money can change the people into any kind of activities such that daily we are watching in news channels that husband kills wife for insufficient dowry etc.., is this necessary to give........?

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  7. Taking dowry is not bad at all and its not like dowry is always given by bride family now a days if girls are working and independent they don't give any thing that's perfectly fine but if they are not working then if they don't want to give dowry why bride parents look for a highly educated and rich they should marry to unemployed so they have a choice but they don't take it and they look for better why should boys also not look for better prospect and even the dowry its not like boys family used that amount on theirself it is been used for jewelry and marriage costs

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  8. Really taking dowry is very bad we are not in ancient times we are modernisation so we have to Treat both equally if groom ask dowry just think that he want a bride or his wealth can't he take care as her wife

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  9. Dowry is bad but rejecting a guy juat becuase he is not earning good enough is good.

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  10. I don't know anything, man I was just checking this site for my DEBATE!!

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  11. I think dowry is not bed , it may be a very helpful for boys , if any boy and he is good educate nd he want to run a business then it will good for both . why not we doesn't take dowry , unfortunately in future girls or boys want to Deborah when it conditions girl will definitely case for boys properties .why ?

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    1. If a boy has no money for run the business its not mean he demand to bride's parents. he can take loan, borrow to relatives also. you can't pressurize the bride's parents for it.

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  12. In the ancient time ..dowry system was introduced to increase the value of bride in the opposite house..but these days it is like giving girl for money !! unfortunately we are in this stage where still girls are seen as toys ..

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  13. According to me if my partner,s parents will give anything then they are giving their own daughter not to me but I will not any demand coz as they wish what they want to give their daughter

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